How to Land Your First Date

We all have admired the look of the "girl next door," that unattainable, yet oh-so-tempting girl that could have any guy she wanted. Those girls have caught our eye since we were teenagers, and even as we advance in age, they still hold a certain allure. Now, what if there existed a place where regular guys like us actually stood a chance with girls like that?

At Secret Benefits, guys like us don't have to compete with strapping young studs for the attention of these women anymore (and who could?). Instead, our only competition is... other guys like us! The young ladies of Secret Benefits are looking for a man with age, experience, and a talent for making girls feel special and taken care of. Unlike the real world, it is very easy for a man like that to get the attention of a sexy young hottie.  

Of course, getting her attention is only the first step. Getting her to meet you comes next, and to that end, I've provided these 5 tips to help you lock up that first date. Please try to keep these to yourself... You have a lot of peers out there. The competition is fierce, but for once, it's fair.

1. Keep things moving quickly. Don’t give her too much time to have second thoughts or get snapped up by someone else! Honestly guys - you snooze you lose.  Don’t find this out the hard way.
2. Give her confidence by asking her early on what she wants out of the arrangement and confirming that you can help her with her needs. Of course, make sure she can fulfill your needs too. If you’re anything like me you probably have a lot of needs that must be fulfilled, am I right?
3. Whenever you are ready to actually meet, ask her if there is somewhere she would prefer to meet up, or suggest a couple of options of your own.  Letting her choose will make her feel more comfortable, though. If she is somewhere comfortable then she’s much more likely to warm up to you quickly.
4. Exchange phone numbers so you can easily stay in touch. Even if she isn’t ready to give you hers, consider giving her yours. Only use the number if you really need to though - otherwise, you may put her off.
5. Upload a video and use the private verification tool to prove it’s really you. This little tool will add a verified badge to your profile and tell her you are who you say you are. If she doesn’t have one, ask her to do it too -so you both trust each other.

I sure wish I had this advice when I started. Let's see what you can do with it!

Cheers,

Herb