The Price of Finding the Right Woman

Last Updated: February 6, 2025

You know, as a guy who has never really felt compelled to settle down, I can estimate that I’ve been intimate with over a hundred different women, but very few of them have I seen more than once.

For a woman who provides me with a great time, though, I almost always feel like a return visit. You probably know exactly what I’m talking about.

Every time I hook up with a woman for the first time it’s really just so I can find out if there will be a second time or not. Usually, the answer is "no," which is fine. After so many bad experiences, I deliberately keep my expectations low.

Of course, I still try to enjoy myself on those first visits, but I never go into a one-night stand expecting it to turn into a two-night stand - Call it a regular engagement, if you will. Like I said, I keep my expectations low.

However, when you strike gold the world is different for that hour or so, isn't it?  The exhilaration and freedom are mind-blowing. When you find it, it’s so addictive you have to go back for more. You know what I mean right?

Sadly for me, my success rate is lower than I’d like these days. I hope you are more successful than me with finding a mate online, maybe you are better at research than me, or perhaps you’re more likable than me? Maybe I’m just picky!  It always takes me a long time and a lot of effort to find a new favorite and when I find her I repeat until I get bored, while always keeping things casual.

I needed a more effective way to enjoy the thrill of female company without attachment! Arrangement dating has really helped me to save time and made the process more fun.

When I find a sugar baby I am happy to spend money on her, and I usually always want to keep it going, for as long as I'm not bored. Arrangement dating has really changed my outlook!

For just a few credits, I can chat online with a new girl and see if we get along.  If the chat goes well they are usually all too happy to share their phone number and set up a quick first meeting.

Between the messages and the phone call, I’ll know if they are worth pursuing further, and at this point, my total investment so far has been almost nothing!

Better yet, I still have the first date to confirm compatibility. I usually take the girls out for a coffee or a drink. Some girls will want a little cash to come on the date, others are happy to come for free because they are just as curious as I am to see if we're compatible.

The purpose of the meeting is to confirm that I'm physically attracted to her.  If I can see some initial chemistry I’ll be able to more openly discuss the way our arrangement will work. I don’t have to be shy, I can let her know what I want in return!

At this point, my investment to meet a beautiful young woman who is willing to be intimate with me is still almost nothing. If we don’t click, we can both walk away with no further investment. 

However, that's not what we’re really here for, are we? After all, I screened her before the meeting - the meeting itself was just to double-check.

This is why my success rate with arrangements is so good: By the time we meet, I already know it’s most probably going to work out, and I know roughly what she wants in return so we aren’t wasting each other's time.  This means I can create lasting, beneficial arrangements from the comfort of my own home for practically nothing! I only part with real money after I know she’s worth it.

Secret Benefits has been growing like crazy, with thousands of new hot young women looking for arrangements with guys like you. Are you ready to meet them?

Cheers,
Herb