What if I don't receive a response?

Last Updated: March 4, 2025

Ask Stella

It’s common that at least a few of the messages you send simply won’t receive a response. I wouldn’t worry too much about this. It’s possible that the sugar daddy you wrote is busy and either 1) hasn’t received the message yet OR 2) hasn’t had the chance or the time to respond. It’s also possible he may have recently started a relationship and is waiting to see where it goes, if he sees you a girl he would potentially be interested in seeing in the future.

There are so many reasons you may not receive a response, but if you’ve waited a couple of days, and you really think you he’s the one, I don’t see any problem in sending him a second more personal message letting him know that you think he might be the one for you. If you do send a second email, I would keep it short. I wouldn’t make it more than a couple of sentences, and I would keep it light and flirty. Maybe mention something from his profile that you like, or say something about his appearance from his profile picture that you think is sexy. Sometimes comparing him to another famous person you think is hot can make a great compliment. For instance, “I love your smile. You remind me of a young George Clooney, who’s always been a crush of mine.” You can never go wrong with a little bit of flattery.

Sometimes if a sugar daddy receives a lot of emails, a short personalized follow-up can be just enough to get you the response you want.

Wishing you the best on your sugar adventures,

Stella
XO

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