When is it safe to reveal your identity to your Match?

I think it’s probably best to reveal yourself in pieces, while you’re establishing your relationship.  What I mean by this is that you’ll probably want to begin by revealing a little about your life in your profile.  For instance, if you’re a student, you might mention it, as well as your interests and/or major.  Once you begin corresponding with a potential sugar daddy, you may want to reveal a little more about yourself.  I imagine at this point, it will probably be the usual “getting to know you” type of question and answers – such as where you grew up, any favorite foods, travel destinations, etc.

I think that after you’ve had a positive first date, it would be all right for you to at least give your potential sugar daddy your email address.  I have always kept a separate email account for my sugar dating, so that I don’t have to give out my college account, or my personal address for friends and family.  This is a personal decision, so I would do whatever you’re most comfortable with.  I would also wait until you’ve established whether you want to become more serious with a sugar daddy, before giving him your cell phone number.

I would recommend waiting until after a few successful in-person dates, before letting your sugar daddy know where you live.  Again, this is a personal decision, but I’ve always thought it’s better to play it safe.  An easy way to avoid the issue of giving out your personal address is to meet him at the restaurant, or wherever you have a date planned, which avoids the issue altogether. 

I think if a sugar daddy asks you for your personal number or home address and you don’t feel comfortable giving him that information, he should be understanding and respectful of your decision to wait.  If he pushes you on it, or gets upset, I would question whether he’s a good match for you.  All the best sugar daddies I’ve had have been very respectful of my personal boundaries, which is an important aspect in any romantic relationship.  It’s important to keep things fun, which is only possible if you feel comfortable in the relationship.

Wishing you the best on your sugar adventures, 

Stella
XO